QUESTION:
Is it permissible for a woman to use the same utensils as a Ghair Mahram male? For example, families often prepare food for Jamaats by their Masaajid, so if a male eats from a salad for example using a spoon, and then puts that spoon into the dish itself, is there any ruling regarding the permissibility of a woman using that same spoon etc. (without washing it, as she wouldn’t have known that someone used it)?
ANSWER:
It is Makrooh for a female to utilize a utensil that a male used for eating, not because it is Napaak, but due to the enjoyment that she could possibly take knowing that a male had used the same utensil. The same ruling applies to a male utilizing the utensil of a female. [Re:- Fataawa Uthmaniyyah Pg.26 Vol.10] However, if the utensil was washed and then used, there is no harm in doing so.
وما في المجتبي من كراهة سؤرها لاجنبي كسؤره لها ليس لعدم طهارته بل للالتذاد الحاصل للشارب اثر صاحبه (النهر الفائق ج1 ص92)
ALLAH TA’ALA ALONE IN HIS INFINITE KNOWLEDGE KNOWS BEST!
ANSWERED BY:
Maulana Ahmed Saeed
Date: – 21 Safr 1445 / 07 September 2023
CHECKED AND APPROVED BY:
Mufti Mohammed Desai Saheb