QUESTION:
What is the ruling regarding a wife who fights with her husband?
ANSWER:
It is necessary for the wife to obey her husband, and upsetting the husband by fighting and arguing with him is impermissible. Severe warnings have been cited in the Hadith for a disobedient wife.
It is recorded in one narration that a disobedient wife will receive a severe punishment on the day of Qiyaamah, while another Hadith states that when the husband is dissatisfied with his wife, then her Salaah is not accepted. The Nabi of Allah himself cursed such a woman; hence, every married woman should refrain from arguing and fighting with her husband.
حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادٌ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ هِلَالِ بْنِ يَسَافٍ عَنْ زِيَادِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَعْدِ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ الْمُصْطَلِقِ، قَالَ أَشَدُّ النَّاسِ عَذَابًا اثْنَانِ امْرَأَةٌ عَصَتْ زَوْجَهَا وَإِمَامُ قَوْمٍ وَهُمْ لَهُ كَارِهُونَ (سنن الترمذي ج١ص٨٣)
ابن أبي شيبة [١٧٤١٣] حدثنا عبد الله بن إدريس عن الأعمش عن المنهال عن عبد الله بن الحارث قال: ثلاثة لا تجاوز صلاة أحدهم رأسه، إمام أم قوما وهم له كارهون، وامرأة تعصي زوجها، وعبد آبق من سيده. اهـ صحيح
ALLAH TA’ALA ALONE IN HIS INFINITE MERCY KNOWS BEST!
ANSWERED BY:
Maulana Ahmed Saeed
Date: 17 Muharram 1446 / 24 July 2024
CHECKED AND APPROVED BY:
Mufti Mohmmed Desai Saheb
